Sunday, January 4, 2009
04/01/2009 (Relationship-this is how i felt gers should do)
Love the guy in your heart, not in your mind. If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings. Guys are there to be loved, not toyed around.Love him for who he is. Don't even think about changing any bit about him. 6 billion people in this world & 6 billion different personalities. He's special & he will stay that way. You change any part of him, you'll change him forever. Don't substitute him for anyone else, they are just uniquein their own ways.Love whole-heartedly. He sacrificed a lot for you so you'd better really treasure him. He could have just got up & date a so much more dashing gal in town but he chose you instead all because of love. So love him gal, not play with him.Don't just get the guy to beg you to stay or whatsoever. If you're with him, love him. Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity, that's not respecting love at all. Respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be.Don't expect perfection from him. He's the only one in the world & he's done the best he could.Like another guy while you're in a relationship? Then I think it's time you remain single for a while. Don't go around breaking guy's hearts, it's the most tragic thing to do.Tell the truth, never hide anything from him. If you want him to tell you everything, do the same. Don't go calling other guys "honey" or "darling", how would it feel if your guy calls other gals the same way? Be faithful, enough is enough.Socialise only when you're single. You socialise & flirt around is to get the guy of your dreams. Get it over when he's already yours, don't ask for more.It never kills to be romantic.Think, be flexible. Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for girls. Be realistic,he's human & he lives life just like you.Something sweet & simple always get the job done.
*No offence as this is just my own personel thinking
rOy wrote on 2:06 AM.